Category: self-belief
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Choose Today, Because Pity and Love Cannot Co-exist
“I never saw a wild thingsorry for itself.A small bird will drop frozen dead from a boughwithout ever having felt sorry for itself” David Herbert Lawrence I have an abundance of compassion, empathy, shoulders to cry on and ears that are open and waiting. But when people need pity, I come up empty handed. Every. […]
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Using Your Pain As Medicine
“Make medicine from your pain. Be that kind of warrior” Jaiya John “Inexplicable sorrows await all of us” … Tragedy, pain, struggle, and loss are both inevitable and unavoidable in this life. You cannot be born, live, and die unscathed from the heart breaking and soul crushing blows that will come knocking at your door. […]
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Remember Your Future: A Plot Twist on Manifestation
“Begin with the end in mind” is based on the principle that all things are created twice. There’s a mental or first creation, and a physical or second creation to all things. Steven Covey Everything is created twice. There is a mental/emotional creation and a physical creation. How we generally think of this concept is […]
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The Butterfly Effect: What Will You Create?
“The soul has no secret that the behavior does not reveal” Lao Tzu During the COVID-19 pandemic, I had time to do something I haven’t really done since I was a teenager; watch lots of TV! While binge watching Ozarks and retightening my sisterlocs, I watched a scene where Marty talked about the butterfly effect. […]
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The One Thing You Must Do Today to Increase Your Self-Esteem
“Self-esteem is the single most significant key to a person’s behavior” John C. Maxwell Dictionary.com defines self-esteem as “confidence in one’s own worth or abilities.” On the surface we know how important it is to have high self-esteem. But if we are being honest with ourselves, many of us struggle with developing and sustaining a […]
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The Black Girl’s Guide to Radical Self-Love
“The hardest part is coming to the realization that no one is really going to save you but yourself, that pain is your life’s most valuable teacher and that you will never find happiness until you are completely, absurdly in love with yourself” RM Drake There is a 5- step process to radical self-love. Merriam […]
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Your Success = Your Daily Routine
“You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret to your success is found in your daily routine” John C. Maxwell So many people fail to reach their goals. And it doesn’t have to be that way. It’s not because they aren’t capable. It’s not because the desire isn’t there. […]
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My 3 Golden Rules for Dealing With People
“Before you can change the world around you, you must learn to change the worlds within you” Unknown As I evolve emotionally and energetically, I’ve established my own version of golden rules when dealing with people. As a result, I’m more compassionate toward others, I’ve learned the value of establishing clear boundaries in my relationships, […]
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50 Things the Black Woman Must Say When She Talks to Herself
“The world will knock you down plenty. You don’t need to be doing it to yourself” Elizabeth Scott Everyone is into affirmations these days, even me! I have affirmations on post it notes on my bedroom mirror. Some of them read, “I am enough,” “I trust myself,” and “I am worthy.” But these aren’t Affirmations. […]
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Your Worth & Value Are Not The Same
“Protect your value for all its worth“ Marc Leder You define your worth. Others determine your value. Investments have a cost basis and a market value. The cost basis is what you paid for the investment and generally speaking, remains the same. This is the investment’s intrinsic worth. The market value is what others are […]
Kathleen Nicole 