Category: karmic relationships
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When You are Triggered, Remember This
“At the center of your healing is you, has always been you, will always be you. You are the mender” Upile Chisala I am madly, intensely, and unabashedly in love with a man who admittedly is the only one who can push every single one of my buttons. And as the old folks say, “get […]
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Rebellious Hearts
I was never a fan of short stories until I discovered the inimitable J. California Cooper. Her short stories carried me through as I navigated one of the most difficult times of my life. I’m reminded of the song they sang in church, 🎶 “Love lifted me. Love lifted me. When nothing else could help, […]
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The Thing They Don’t Tell You About Forgiveness
“Life is long, that people both change and remain the same, that every last one of us will need to fuck up and be forgiven. That we’re all just walking and walking and walking and trying to find our way, that all roads eventually to the mountaintop” Cheryl Strayed Everyone talks about the importance of […]
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My 3 Golden Rules for Dealing With People
“Before you can change the world around you, you must learn to change the worlds within you” Unknown As I evolve emotionally and energetically, I’ve established my own version of golden rules when dealing with people. As a result, I’m more compassionate toward others, I’ve learned the value of establishing clear boundaries in my relationships, […]
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Toxic Single Mothers & The Boys They Raise Who Never Become Men
“Some people play victims of crimes they committed” This is a topic that many don’t want to discuss because most don’t want to admit it. There are many, many single mothers who are toxic, narcissistic and abusive. And they raise boys who never become men. They raise boys who grow up to be emotionally unstable, […]
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A First Born Daughter Raised as a Son
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are” Carl Jung “My father told me, “If you were a boy, I wouldn’t have to be so hard on you”. He was right. If I was a boy, he wouldn’t have had to be so hard on me because I would have been […]
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Karma Isn’t A Bitch, Her Name is Miss Celie…
“The words we use, use us” Unknown The Color Purple is my favorite movie of all time. There are so many scenes that resonate with me, but the one that touches me the most was the Easter dinner scene when Celie gave Mister more than just a piece of her mind! Whew! Sends chills down […]
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Our Love is a War
“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up” James Baldwin “It’s going to be hard”. That is what my deceased great grandfather, my closest spirit guide told me when I met this fine ass 6 foot […]
Kathleen Nicole 