Your Success = Your Daily Routine

“You’ll never change your life until you change something you do daily. The secret to your success is found in your daily routine” John C. Maxwell So many people fail to reach their goals. And it doesn’t have to be that way. It’s not because they aren’t capable. It’s not because the desire isn’t there.Continue reading “Your Success = Your Daily Routine”

Why You Must Try V-Steaming

“I must warn you, there is soft juju at work in my thighs” Upile Chisala I first tried vaginal steaming in 2017. I came across a random post on IG discussing Vaginal steaming. I had never heard of the practice, but once I learned about the benefits I had to try. Well, I fell headContinue reading “Why You Must Try V-Steaming”

My 3 Golden Rules for Dealing With People

“Before you can change the world around you, you must learn to change the worlds within you” Unknown As I evolve emotionally and energetically, I’ve established my own version of golden rules when dealing with people. As a result, I’m more compassionate toward others, I’ve learned the value of establishing clear boundaries in my relationships,Continue reading “My 3 Golden Rules for Dealing With People”

50 Things the Black Woman Must Say When She Talks to Herself

“The world will knock you down plenty. You don’t need to be doing it to yourself” Elizabeth Scott Everyone is into affirmations these days, even me! I have affirmations on post it notes on my bedroom mirror. Some of them read, “I am enough,” “I trust myself,” and “I am worthy.” But these aren’t Affirmations.Continue reading “50 Things the Black Woman Must Say When She Talks to Herself”

Your Worth & Value Are Not The Same

“Protect your value for all its worth“ Marc Leder You define your worth. Others determine your value. Investments have a cost basis and a market value. The cost basis is what you paid for the investment and generally speaking, remains the same. This is the investment’s intrinsic worth. The market value is what others areContinue reading “Your Worth & Value Are Not The Same”

Toxic Single Mothers & The Boys They Raise Who Never Become Men

“Some people play victims of crimes they committed” This is a topic that many don’t want to discuss because most don’t want to admit it. There are many, many single mothers who are toxic, narcissistic and abusive. And they raise boys who never become men. They raise boys who grow up to be emotionally unstable,Continue reading “Toxic Single Mothers & The Boys They Raise Who Never Become Men”

A First Born Daughter Raised as a Son

“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are” Carl Jung “My father told me, “If you were a boy, I wouldn’t have to be so hard on you”. He was right. If I was a boy, he wouldn’t have had to be so hard on me because I would have beenContinue reading “A First Born Daughter Raised as a Son”

The Magnetism of the Feminine Essence

“She accepts your compliments on her face, her hair, her body graciously-and she is, indeed, beautiful. But she is only moved when you notice the beauty of her spirit” Allaisia Hanan The feminine essence is the most attractive and powerful force there is. A woman who reclaims her feminine essence and makes the choice toContinue reading “The Magnetism of the Feminine Essence”

Karma Isn’t A Bitch, Her Name is Miss Celie…

“The words we use, use us” Unknown The Color Purple is my favorite movie of all time. There are so many scenes that resonate with me, but the one that touches me the most was the Easter dinner scene when Celie gave Mister more than just a piece of her mind! Whew! Sends chills downContinue reading “Karma Isn’t A Bitch, Her Name is Miss Celie…”

New Year, New You…Not Now

“In winter, I plot and plan. In spring, I move” Henry Rollins In the dead of winter, while trees and plants are dormant, animals are hibernating, and all of nature is in a state of rest, recovery, and reflection, society says, “Happy New Year! New Year, New You! We are encouraged and subtly manipulated toContinue reading “New Year, New You…Not Now”